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You’re facing an incredible amount of uncertainty right now.

What do I want?
How will I get there?
What if I’m still not happy?
What if I make the wrong choice?
Will I survive this?

My friend, I know you will.

Throwing away everything you have to enter into the unknown is scary.

I recently discovered a betrayal in my marriage that is so significant it causes PTSD.

As if that wasn’t enough…

I was blindsided with a lawsuit from my mother-in-law, claiming ownership of my house, based on a document I signed - unwillingly.

I’m in the midst of this sh!t-storm journey.

With 2 kids. As a homeschool mom.

Scary...might be an understatement.

But I already know this:

Diving into the unknown and coming out Whole, Content and Happy - is 100% possible.

I’ve been through hard stuff, and I’m going through the hardest time in my life - right now.

And I want to share the tools I already know and am practicing.

I want to share the new tools I’m learning every day.

You will watch me:

Fall flat on my face
Fail, over and over again

Because failure is where the nuggets of gold reside.

You will also watch me:

Get up, over and over again
Find ways to move into renewed peace and joy

Because my promise to you, even when life is a struggle, is that we can still find everyday joy.

We can still be OK - happy even - though our life situation is far from what we had planned for ourselves.

My story went like this:

As soon as I saw that first email discovering my husband's betrayal I knew my life would never be the same.

Everything slowed to a crawl.

I began methodically taking screenshots.

I went through over a decade of conversations with all different women thinking...WTF?!

I wasn’t thinking - how could he?

Or even - this isn’t happening.

I was thinking - this is it.

This is my life test.

How I handle this will be the single most important thing I will do for myself in my lifetime.

Radical Change Is Hard

But I recommend letting that change be your choice.

If radical change is what you need and you don’t make the first move - rest assured the universe/god/source will make that move for you.

And I can tell you from experience that having the carpet ripped out from underneath you is so much harder than stepping off the carpet yourself!!

I want to help you make your necessary changes with grace.

As a coach, I have watched and supported so many women making huge changes in their lives.

On a personal level, I honestly feel like I have been studying and practicing for this my whole life.

I know in my heart of hearts, on a soul-cellular level, that this is not it.

This is not the end of my story.

Wherever you are right now - in your own sh!t storm - is not the end of your story.

There is a whole new chapter - a whole new life even - waiting for us as we navigate through it all.

I’m Jessica.

I spent the first twenty-one years of my life trying to get out of Wisconsin. Ten days after graduating from the University of Wisconsin - Madison, I landed at SFO on a Wednesday night at 11pm with no job, no place to live, no friends, $1,300, a carry-on suitcase full of suits and three weeks to make something happen.

Dumb? Naive? Definitely ballsy.

Twenty-one years later, I’m still in the San Francisco Bay Area.

Things have changed a bit though (understatement.)

I married ~~prince charming~~ Hans. I got a job. It sucked, and I cycled through four jobs and two careers in search of the perfect one. All the while, slowly dying inside.

Eventually, I got THE job. The one I had longed for: fulfilling, passionate…..

The job? Stay-At-Home-Mom. Which morphed into Homeschool mom when our absolutely perfect child dropped out of preschool. Then a second kid arrived. She’s perfect too — by perfect I mean — constantly screaming at the top of her perfect little lungs. Still, I kept my head down deep into my ‘work’ until D day when the carpet was ripped out from under me.

Now I’m looking ahead to the next 21 years. To ultimately rebuilding my new, perfect life.

The only thing I know for sure is that I have an amazing support system helping me through this challenging time, and I want to extend that support to you.

My friend...

Hard stuff is easier with a community. I know this in my bones.

I’m beyond grateful that you’re here. I can’t wait to hear what you want out of life. And for us to get started making changes together.

My commitment is to share the skills and tools I’m using to navigate my sh!t storm so you may use them to ease your own journey.

And to share my story so we may all feel a little less alone, a little more connected, in knowing that we are having a shared, human experience together.

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